5 Questions You Want to Ask the Blow Job Expert, Reba the Diva:

Hey Frase got a chance to sit down with the Blow Job Expert, Reba the Diva, recently. We were thrilled to ask her all of our burning questions about her blowjob classes. Here’s a few of our favorites.

Reba the Diva is the expert when it comes to blow job classes.

1. Why start a blowjob class? Why take one?

Reba the Diva started her blowjob classes after she was selling sex toys and asked a lot of questions about pleasure. She realized pretty quickly that there wasn’t anywhere for adults to learn pleasure positive education. At school, if there are sex education classes, you learn don’t get pregnant and don’t get STD’s—not about orgasms and how to pleasure yourself.

Reba suggests taking a blowjob class because you can always learn. She’s even has a 63-year-old show up to class before! Because there’s no formal education about pleasure, you really only learn through experience. So, if you haven’t been in a relationship with pleasure and communication at the forefront, it makes that you’d be unsure about your skill level. A lot of women also want some confidence post breakup, they need “skills to pay the bills” (kidding)!

2. Are you trying to tell us something… are most people just bad at giving blowjobs?

“Generally, people could be better at giving blowjobs. People could all be a little better if they talked about it more.”

Reba explained that most women don’t know that men have two types of orgasms. Because there are many taboos on sexual preferences, many shy away from prostate stimulation because it is seen as “homosexual.”

For the most part though, the class acts as a safe sort of learning community for people who want to feel more confident when going into the bedroom. A lot of the class involves creating this community—almost like a support group in a way—where women can share their stories, tell others what brought them to class, and explain their fears of “doing it wrong.”

3. So it’s a two-hour long class…are you teaching for that whole time?

Reba explained that her classes are divided into three 30 minute segments with time for questions in between each one. During the first part, she focuses on the penis anatomy and pleasure—“from tip to testicles and beyond!”

During the second part, Reba focuses on the key ingredients to giving great head and how to prioritize your pleasure as women even when you are sucking dick. The third part is the most popular, and Reba focuses on the 20 tricks to get the job done—like foreplay, timesavers if you’re jaw is hurting and your neck is getting tired, and some signature moves to personalize your BJ. With every class, she also includes the penis-pleasing bible, Tickle His Pickle.

4. Is your Cunnilingus class as popular as your blowjob one?

Surprise, surprise, it’s not. Reba has come to realize that even though men need the help too, they are way less likely to admit that they aren’t phenomenal in the bedroom or that they’re feeling a little self-conscious about their skill set. However, she has discovered that a lot of women are actually interested in the “Eating Cake” class. Although it’s still less popular than the blowjob class, the DC lesbian community has really embraced Reba’s classes as learning opportunities. They need confidence too!

5. What is your number one tip for giving head? Or do we have to sign up for the class to hear that?

“Rule number one: don’t neglect the balls.”

If you wanna learn any more, you’re gonna have to sign up for a class yourself here.

Bonus Question: You know Sarah, and she just had to ask the dirtiest question possible: What’s the craziest blowjob nightmare story you’ve heard?

A woman once confided in Reba about how her pop rocks blowjob went wrong. She heard about pop rocks being an awesome way to increase pleasure while giving head, which totally worked and her partner loved it! Afterwards, though, they decided to have sex without washing up first. Long story short, the pop rocks were infinitely less fun when they were in her vagina. All that sugar disrupted the pH balance, leading to a cycle of bacterial and yeast infections. Moral of the story: Clean up a little after you experiment.

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